The ability to let go, to forgive, and to extend mercy towards our past is indeed a superpower that we, as humans, earnestly yearn for in our lives. Why? Because within actions lies the profound harmony of liberation and inner peace. In the art of letting go, we find the emancipation of our spirit from the chains of regret, while forgiveness enables the springing forth of new beginnings and unburdens the soul from the weight of past transgressions. Moreover, embracing mercy towards our past is akin to extending a compassionate hand to our own selves, bestowing the gift of healing and restoration upon our hearts, ultimately leading to a state of emotional freedom and tranquility or Because those few words here in harmony say it so.
“No need to drop a single tear again
Fight for redemption for a soul of unchain.
No need to live with a broken heart and a soul of misery
because past won’t remember you the very moment you set it free.”
We encounter numerous individuals who live through life or pass away consumed by regret, continually blaming themselves and wasting their precious time wallowing in self-blame. Yet, a person with a contrite heart and repentant conscience is truly blessed. We must recognize that making mistakes and encountering destruction are inherent traits of our humanity. Irrespective of our circumstances, we all make errors in our thoughts, words, or physical actions. It is imperative, however, that we learn from these missteps and grant ourselves the opportunity for redemption and renewal. We must refuse to be bound by the shackles of our past, thereby depriving ourselves of the freedom to embrace happiness. The past should remind us that it has passed and encourage us to release the weight of ill memories, allowing us to sing the song of restoration unburdened. We ought to stand with unwavering resolve and a courageous heart, looking toward the day of hope that dawns tomorrow. Succumbing to our past and being imprisoned by it is a foolish act, in contrast, learning to forgive ourselves is the paramount consideration. While the person we have wronged may or may not offer forgiveness, it is essential that we are able to make peace with that individual, the wrongful deed, and ultimately, reconcile our own lives and souls, enabling a fresh start.
BY BITANIYA TADELE
THE ETHIOPIAN HERALD WEDNESDAY 17 JANUARY 2024